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Reader Q&A: I Overspent This Summer 🫠: How Do I Get My Finances Back on Track?
I’ve been saying yes to everything this summer; trips, dinners, activities with my kids, and things I didn’t really plan for. I had a great time, but now I’m looking at my credit card balance and feeling some regret. How do I recover from summer overspending without spending the rest of the year feeling deprived?
Camille, it’s easy to overspend during the summer, and it happens to the best of us. Summer naturally feels like the time to be out more, travel, socialize, and spend. After working hard through winter, fall, and spring, summer feels like a reward.
While overindulging can have its consequences, it’s important not to let those feelings deter you from getting back on track with your finances. Let’s take a look at how to dial back the spending without feeling like you’re cutting all the joy out of your life.
1. Don’t turn regret into shame
Money was spent, a good time was had, and beating yourself up won’t put that money back in your account. Instead of turning spending regret into shame, get curious about what’s bothering you.
Did you spend more than you planned? Dip into savings? Put expenses on a credit card that you can’t immediately pay off? Or are you simply uncomfortable with how much you spent, even though you could afford it?
Understanding why you feel regret can help you decide what, if anything, needs to change. Maybe you need a clearer spending limit for your next trip, more time to save beforehand, or a separate vacation fund so the expense doesn’t interfere with your other goals.
Use the experience as information. You can enjoy the memories you made while also making adjustments that leave you feeling better about how you spend next time.
2. Look at the actual damage before panicking
Seeing your credit card balance after a spendy summer might make you immediately regret some of your choices. But before you panic, look at the actual numbers.
Review your credit card statement and make sure every charge is correct. Then add up what you owe and compare that amount against your income, upcoming bills, and other financial obligations.
Can you pay the balance off without falling behind on your bills or draining your savings? If so, great. If not, that doesn’t mean you’ve ruined your finances. It simply means you need a plan to pay it down.
Knowing exactly what you’re dealing with puts you in a much better position to decide what to do next.
First, decide how much money you can afford to put toward your balance right now. For instance, if your balance is $1,000, perhaps you can put $500 toward it today.
For the remaining balance, see how much you can put aside weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly to bring down the balance.
It helps to set a mini-goal to pay off your debt by a specific date. With a goal in mind, you’ll pay off debt faster and stay motivated to achieve your goal.
4. Temporarily pull back in specific categories
It sounds like you’re already thinking about cutting back, but worry about depriving yourself of fun.
To avoid feeling like you're in spending prison, let’s be realistic about what you can scale back. Chances are some summer expenses won't apply to the fall. For example, you might not be taking as many road trips or having time to go out to eat every night once your fall workload starts up.
The key is to pull back in one or two areas instead of cutting yourself off completely.
For instance, if you notice you’ve been spending $200 a week on eating out, adjust your target. Focus on making meals at home, then choose one night a month to try a new restaurant.
While "no-spend" challenges and going cold turkey can be helpful, it may make more sense for your situation to put spending limits rather than no spending at all.
5. Protect your emergency savings
If you have money sitting in your emergency fund, you may be tempted to use it to wipe out your credit card balance and be done with it.
But remember what that money is there for: actual emergencies.
Using your emergency savings to pay off vacations, dining out, or other summer spending could leave you without a financial cushion when an unexpected expense comes up. And if your car breaks down or you have another emergency soon after, you could end up right back on your credit card.
Instead, keep your emergency savings intact and focus on creating room in your regular income to pay down the balance.
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6. Keep your other financial goals moving where possible
When you're focused on paying off debt, you may decide to temporarily reduce how much you're putting toward other financial goals so you can make faster progress.
But that doesn't necessarily mean stopping everything. For example, if your employer offers a retirement match, consider contributing enough to receive the full match while directing more of your available money toward your debt. You might also choose to continue investing or saving a smaller amount simply to keep those goals moving.
The key is to be intentional about what you reduce, what you continue, and where your money can have the greatest impact while you're paying off debt.
7. Be intentional when extra money comes in
If extra money comes your way while you’re paying down your balance, decide ahead of time how you want to use it.
Money from extra hours, a bonus, cash back, or another unexpected source can help you make faster progress on your debt. You might decide to put all of it toward your balance or use a portion for debt while putting the rest toward another important financial goal.
The point isn’t that every extra dollar has to go toward debt. It’s to make sure extra money has a purpose instead of disappearing into your everyday spending.
8. Plan for the future with better habits
Take a moment to look at what caused the overspending in the first place. Have you been super restrictive with your spending all year, making summer feel like the first time you could actually do something for yourself? Was there simply no summer budget? Did you feel pressured to say yes to everything? Did you overestimate travel costs?
Whatever the reason, don’t beat yourself up. Recognize the cause and plan to do better by building stronger habits:
If you were overly restrictive before, try adding a "fun money" category to your budget.
If you failed to set a summer budget, consider starting a fall budget that gives you a little spending room while prioritizing debt payoff.
Feeling pressured to go out all the time? Draft a few polite responses to decline invitations that fall outside your budget.
With a little preparation, you avoid repeat mistakes.
9. Start a summer sinking fund
Once you’ve freed yourself from your summer debt, start planning ahead for next year. With a summer sinking fund, you can put a little money aside each month so that when next summer arrives, you can live your best life with the cash to back it up.
Remember that enjoying your money is part of the plan
We can’t tell you exactly how to spend your money, because ultimately you know what’s best for you and your lifestyle. Plus, no one works hard just to pay bills.
Life is far more enjoyable when you don’t have to worry if every credit card swipe will come back to haunt you.
The biggest takeaway is to not "punish" yourself for overspending. You are human, and no one, no matter how wealthy, is perfect with money. Shame isn’t a motivator, and you can't change the past. Your true power lies with your ability to learn from your mistakes and build a better system for smarter spending moving forward.
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